Since you’re reading this, you’re probably a teacher, a former teacher, a kinda-sorta-wannabe-ex-teacher, or a language learner who’s been attempting to teach yourself. And because you’re in one or more of those categories, you probably have – or used to have – a pretty strong sense of Purpose or Mission. Robert Dilts calls it your “What for?” or “Who for?”
Many of us also have a “Why?” but a “Why?” can be hard to put into words. Your “What for?” or “Who for?” is easier to articulate, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s easy to share with others.
My “What for?” has always been joyful freedom, and my “Who for?” has always been people who don’t feel joyful or free. And yours is just as unique to you as mine is to me.
I remember being a happy child and realizing that not everybody around me was happy. My parents had all the worries and concerns that adults have. My beloved Aunt Helen (who isn’t actually related to me) had some life-sadness that I knew about (she was orphaned as a small child and grew up in an orphanage) and some I learned about later. Friends in the neighborhood, friends at school, teachers, adult friends of my parents … everybody seemed to have something that was keeping them from being as joyful and free as they wanted to be. And I wanted to help them. I didn’t exactly want to entertain them, but I wanted to help them be as joyful and free as they seemed to want to be.
Flash forward a few years. I’m in high school and have discovered that I can help people understand things that are difficult for them … which helps them feel joyful and free. I’ve also discovered that, for a lot of people, learning another language opens up paths to joy and freedom that weren’t visible before. I look at the middle- and high-school language teachers I know, including the two who introduced me to Latin and the Romans, and I realize these are people in the joy and freedom business. I find an initial career path.
Years go by. I’m doing the Work that I love in a Place that I love, with People that I love, and I’m even helping other language teachers who are – or want to be – in the joy and freedom business. More years go by. I realize, slowly and gradually, that I’m still in the joy and freedom business, but that Last Physical-World School, the one that I had cherished for years, has been shifted, through nobody’s fault, into a very different model than the joy and freedom one that attracted me. It’s 2014, and I make a Big Scary Shift.
Flash forward again. It’s December 2023, just before Christmas, just after Saturnalia, just as the Turning of the Year is at hand. I’m still in the joy and freedom business, still helping learners (like the mom and son in Australia whose biweekly Latin session was yesterday) increase their joy and freedom, still helping teachers (like you!) take your next step toward your own joy and freedom.
The past few years have been hard! They’ve been especially hard for teachers and learners, for people whose School World changed in ways that would have been unimaginable on this day in 2019. A lot of teachers, a lot of learners, a lot of other educators are barely in survival mode, let alone joy and freedom.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. Your “What for?” and your “Who for?” … those haven’t really changed. The core of your Personal Identity hasn’t changed. The essence of your Professional Identity hasn’t changed. But circumstances have changed around you, and something is now misaligned about the way you “always” expressed that Professional Identity – something, possibly something very small, about your Professional Persona or the Role Definitions you have or the Stances that you’re taking toward something in those circumstances. It isn’t anybody’s fault! Nobody did anything wrong! But something is misaligned or ungrounded, either “horizontally” with the People around you, “vertically” with the Place, or perhaps “chronologically” with Practices that used to work well but don’t work anymore.
Let’s find that something. Let’s realign or reground it – and you. And let’s make it so that 2024 is a year of joy and freedom for you and the People you love.